Real Wedding: Annie and Ian: July 25, 2016

This summer we had the honor and pleasure of attending the wedding of Anne Marie Didio to her one and only, Ian Hennessey. What made it magical for us?  We have known Annie since she was a little girl.


Annie and Nikki at dance

Annie and Nikki our oldest daughter have been childhood friends for over 20 years.  Nikki is the graphic designer for Melody Creek.  Nikki and Annie met in dance class all those years ago.

Both of our families have spent countless quality time together over the years.  Nikki, Annie and their younger sisters, Emily and Mollie have grown into beautiful women since we met. Being a part of their lives has to be a highlight of my life.


Annie and Nikki in the limo

On December 26, 2010 Nikki married her high school sweetheart, Marquis.  Annie was  in the wedding party. Nikki was with Annie as she married her sweetheart, Ian.


Annie and Ian at Melody Creek

This precious couple came to the Melody Creek studio in February as our first clients.  Having our first clients be Annie and her future husband Ian, is something we will always remember!  They were ready and prepared to design their invitation suite.  “Simply Elegant” are the words to describe what we created together.  To me that also describes Annie.

To collaborate with them on their wedding stationery was special and sentimental for us.  For Nikki to have part in designing one of her best friends wedding suite meant a lot to her as well.

Anne & Ian Suite

Anne & Ian Suite

After delivering their invitations and as the time got closer to the wedding, Annie and Ian wanted matching items for their wedding day and to send out afterwards. We used their theme to design programs, wedding itenarary, place cards and thank you notes.  Annie and Ian loved them all and for us that’s all that matters!


Chris walking Annie down the aisle at Blessed Sacrament Church

The day of the wedding arrived to say I was excited is an understatement.  Annie and Mollie have always been very special to me.  This family has been an extention of our family for a very long time.  The weather was perfect and I couldn’t wait to be apart of this awesome day!

As Chris, Annie’s Dad walked her down the aisle I got choked up.  A flood of memories came back to me of this incredible beautiful young woman.  Sleepovers, dance rehearsals, dance recitals so many amazing moments of this soon to be bride.  Then I turned to see Ian standing, waiting for her, the look of pure love and JOY on his face was priceless.

The reception was gorgeous.  They chose for their venue the Ballroom at the OnCenter.  The way they displayed the place cards under a sculpture was breathtaking.  The whole day was so much fun!  Another memory to cherish about my dear Annie.

annie-ian-showerFor Annie and Ian we wish you all the best. We can’t wait for what’s to come for you in the future.  Ian welcome to the family!

I love creating wedding stationery and suites that represent everything that amazing couples want for their wedding day!  Contact us today to set up your free consultation in a fun, relaxing, no-stress zone.  We look forward to collaborating with you.  Have an AWESOME day!  All my best,  Shelly

Photo’s courtesy of Facebook public photos amd Nicole Marie Photography.

5 Facts About Postage Costs That’ll Keep You up at Night

It’s all so exciting… just met with the wedding stationery specialist! You looked at a lot of different invitations; you really liked more than one design. This might be a difficult decision. You’re leaning towards a 5″ square style with RSVP and information cards. It has 3 rhinestone embellishments adhered to a petal enclosure envelope. Finally, it’s all wrapped up with a sheer ribbon bow. All of this is enclosed in a lined envelope for a mailing size of 5 1/2″ square. You really love this invitation suite until you find out – – It’s going to cost over $2 to mail each one!!! Don’t panic, we have some tips to help you keep the cost in check.

There are a few things to keep in mind before we get into the facts. 2016 Postage rates in the United States are:


Up to 1oz $0.49
Up to 2oz $0.71
Up to 3oz $0.93

You can pretty much expect that your invitations will be over 1 ounce, but it is possible to keep them under 2 ounces. Keeping the size, shape, thickness & weight in check can help hold the postage down. So with all this in mind, here are the facts:

c50Fact #1 – Size Matters

5” X 7” is the standard invitation size and would be the largest envelope size you should use.  As long as the finished product with the envelope is less than 2 ounces, first class postage is $0.71. Another first class stamp for your RSVP envelope and you’re at $1.20 to mail your invitations. An optional size you might want to consider is 4” x 6”. It will take weight off of the total package and may help you come in under budget!

Fact #2 – Out of Shape

Square envelopes are considered “non-machinable” by the Post Office and carry a $0.22 surcharge. Basically, that means each non-machinable piece of mail gets hand metered. Using our example from fact #1, you’re now up to $0.93.

Fact #3 – Heavy Paper Warning

Using heavier card stock adds elegance to any invitation suite. It also has the potential to drive postage costs up as well.  You may be able to come in under 2 ounces if you use a lighter stock for the RSVP & information cards, so keep this in mind when making your choices.

Fact #4 – Embellish Wisely

Embellishments such as rhinestones will have to be small. Larger embellishments can cause stress on the envelope and tear it. Most likely, this type of invitation will be considered non-machinable by the Post Office unless the rhinestones are really small. When using bows or other decorations, choose ones that are not too bulky. They will add weight and bulk which leads to…you guessed it, more postage. Do you see a theme developing here???

FACT #5 – Maximum Thicknessmail-template

Up to this point, everything we’ve talked about contributes to the weight of the product. The final thing to remember is the finished product in the envelope cannot be more than ¼” thick. At the post office they have a letter-size mail dimensional standards template. You are required to check the thickness and height standards by sliding the envelope through a  ¼” slot lengthwise. If it doesn’t pass through it could end up costing the parcel post rate which is $2.54 per invitation. That would be $254.00 for 100 invitations  plus tax which, in our area, Central New York is 8% equals $274.32. Yikes!

Now, don’t panic! I know just thinking about all of this is too much. E-vites sound really good right now don’t they. Don’t do it. It’s ok……..breathe.

The most important things to remember are these:

  • Choose the style of invitation you want. Square is ok, it’s just going to cost more in postage.
  • Keep your embellishments light so it will go through the template at the post office.
  • To be safe do a test, take an unsealed invitation that’s all together to the post office to be measured before you put postage on the RSVP return envelope and on the outer envelope.
  • The less bulkier the better.

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Melody Creek is located in LaFayette, New York. My name is Shelly Whyland and I am one of the owners and designers. We make custom handmade wedding invitation and  stationery as well as invitations for birthday parties, baby showers, bridal showers, retirement parties, holiday parties, all-occasion cards and so much more. Contact us today for a free consultation. We look forward to helping you design what ever you are looking for!